Best advice I can give a Divine Feminine – re: Twin Flame Union

The best advice I can ever give a Divine Feminine (DF), is to think about Physical Twin Flame Union differently.

All too often on our Twin Flame Journey, our mind gets in the way. We think the Twin Flame Journey should work, a particular way (3D), only to find it doesn’t. *sigh*

But, the very fact that it doesn’t, is why the Twin Flame Journey exists in the first place. Twin Flames are here on the Earth to create change, and to do things differently from a new higher 5D perspective… as the old ways are no longer working!

With this in mind, successfully completing and surviving your Twin Flame Journey, requires a major rethink, so we can actively do things differently – moving from a 3D way to a 5D way.

To help you with this, here are 10 MINDSET SHIFTS and that will help you reach Twin Flame Union easier, and with your sanity intact. 😊

Change your Thoughts and Focus #1

FOCUS more on your entire Twin Flame Journey, than your desired final destination.

(👉 Take one step and a time, and before you know it you will have ‘arrived’)

Stop trying to aim directly for Physical Twin Flame Union.

(…..It is the ultimate goal, but not the first step. You need to focus on and complete the first step first!)

The best advice I can give you, dear Divine Feminine, is take a bigger perspective & viewpoint.

Rather than trying to completely figure out the best and most direct path to straight to permanent Physical Twin Flame Union with your Twin Flame. How about you just start taking steps in that ‘general’ direction, instead?

You will have more success if you commit to focussing on and staying on your Twin Flame Journey (as a whole) rather simply focussing 100% solely and entirely on your desired destination of Twin Flame Union, on its own.

Divine Feminine (DF):
Focus on the Twin Flame Journey itself,
not just your desired destination of Physical Twin Flame Union)

Think of it this way…

If you were trying to hit a bulls-eye on a target (ie Twin Flame Union), realize you need to do first things first. Rather than aiming for a direct ‘bulls-eye’, you will have much more success (and be much less frustrated), if you simply just start off by trying to hit the dart-board, first. Once you are able to hit the dartboard consistently, you can then aim much closer to the bulls-eye on the dartboard (Twin Flame Union).

Another way to view it is to imagine ‘Physical Twin Flame Union’ as a place in another Country on another Continent. It won’t be possible to go straight to this ‘Union Place’ without first travelling to the correct Continent, then the right Country within that Continent, before you can then travel further to reach ‘Union’.

It is all about stepping stones. Inch closer, one step at a time.

Focus on the first steps first.

The path to Twin Flame union isn’t a fast one, or a short one. There is no direct bus. The road is a long windy one – for a reason.

Why? The answer is simple:

You need to learn, grow, and collect a whole set of tools on this journey,
that will give you the greatest chance of success when you get to Twin Flame Union.

The Twin Flame Journey is called a ‘Journey’ for a reason!

So, just keep moving forward, one step at a time….

Change your Thoughts and Focus #2

Embrace your own your Intuition and Guidance regarding your Journey, not the indecision or worries of your mind.

(👉 Your Soul has got this, and is guiding you by the hand 😊)

The more, as a Divine Feminine (DF), we (mentally) judge every idea, option and choice against the target of – ‘Will it get us to Physical Sexual Twin Flame Union with our Twin Flame’, the more we limit ourself.

When we do this, when we engage in this behaviour, are pretty much “standing still” stuck in indecision and fear, trying desperately to find the right path, or right direction. Rather than just stepping out on the path that is in front of us, and trusting we will be guided as we go.

Change your Thoughts and Focus #3

Concentrate on your own Twin Flame Awakening Process – not that of your Twin Flame.

(👉 You and your Twin Flame are linked. Doing your work, paves the way for them too. ❤)

Realize this… getting to Twin Flame Union is a process that has nothing to do with getting your Twin Flame to ‘wake up’.

Your Twin Flame is YOU! So, you are the one that needs to wake up! How truly awake are you???

(By the way, being ‘aware’ of being a Twin Flame does not equal being fully ‘awake’) If your Twin Flame is still ‘asleep’, so to a degree are you…. 😉

{Side note: Don’t forget this Twin Flame Journey includes a Spiritual Awakening, too, so make sure you embrace all aspects of it}

This means, reaching Twin Flame Union requires a different approach…..

Change your Thoughts and Focus #4

Understand that Twin Flame Union is achieved via Internal Work.

(👉 You can’t force it, you can only make progress towards it.)

We don’t achieve Physical Twin Flame Union, like we do any other 3D goals – the car, the job, the holiday, the boat.

I’ve yet to see ‘Twin Flame Union’ for sale in a store. And, if any Twin Flame teacher is trying to sell you guaranteed ‘Twin Flame Union’…. They are lying. Run!. 🛑

⭐⭐⭐ You definitely can’t BUY “Twin Flame Union”,
only an understanding on how to get there. ⭐⭐⭐

Now, a little known secret to manifesting is that you need to take some action towards it. You can’t just sit and wait for it to arrive on your doorstep.

ATTENTION: Diving Timing does require some ‘inspired/guided’ action on your part.

When you start taking steps forward, doors will open, and new paths will appear to support you in your quest…

So, Just keep moving forward, one step at a time.

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“OK”, I hear you say, “This Twin Flame Journey is a huge multi-year process, so I need some kind of direction to move in…”. Yes, you do!

So, what should you be focusing on, if it shouldn’t be Twin Flame Physical Union?

Well, focus on WHO (the version of YOU) you want to become. (Because seriously, that is what you will become when you are in UNION with your Twin Flame, right?) 😊

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Change your Thoughts and Focus #5

Re-awaken the ‘Twin Flame Bubble Love’ version of YOU!

(👉 Re-Experience Twin Flame Bubble Love Energy)

Focus, on being the person you feel you would will ‘BE’ when you reach Union. The peaceful, loving person you had a preview of, back when you and your Twin Flame were both in the beautiful Twin Flame Stage of ‘Blissful Bubble Love’.

Remember back when you just ‘bathed in’ and ‘emanated’ such powerful feelings of love?

When you just felt LOVE for your Twin Flame and everyone else, including yourself. When nothing (no thing) in the 3D world phased you. Where, if on the old chance a disaster happened & you were going to die in the next 10 minutes, you just KNEW that everything would be OK.

🔥 You had no external panic, nor a better place to be.

🔥 There was no other more urgent use of your time, beyond being with your Twin Flame.

🔥 You had trust, and faith and KNEW everything would work out, … without any effort on panic on your part.

🔥 You were in the flow, the Divine Flow, of ‘what is, IS, what is’.

🔥 You were being 100% of yourself, sharing ALL of you with your Twin Flame – things you have probably never shared with others before.

🔥 You didn’t falter. You didn’t hide or change yourself.

🔥 You didn’t fear or worry about censure… because you just KNEW there wouldn’t be any, because your Twin Flame 100% loves and accepts you.

Now, if today you are not feeling or expressing these above things, then this is where you need to focus.

Let’s get those feelings and wonderful states of ‘BEING’ back!

Change your Thoughts and Focus #6

Concentrate on shedding the old 3D version of you.

(👉 So you can embody your Soul 5D version instead)

Make way for the ‘Newer YOU’, but getting rid of any of the ‘old’ parts of you, that no longer ‘align’ with the new ‘Brighter/Lighter’ YOU.

Carefully re-visit each of these ‘old parts/places’, and clear up any old misunderstanding/mis-beliefss, or curently unhealed wounds.

You will definitely need to remove any and all barriers, and drop old baggage (those identities, attitudes, old habits & beliefs) that doesn’t become you.

Go through, inspect, revisit and hopefully ‘throw out’ everything that doesn’t reflect the true, wonderous, amazing, perfect, soul-self that YOU are!

Dump everything (people, places, ideas, beliefs, habits, fears, worries, projections) that is no longer in alignment.

This might seem a bit drastic or even downright scary. But, if they weren’t a good (ie. healthy) fit for the old you, they definitely won’t align with the New Yyou, either.

One thing you need to really, truly understand, is that if you’ve met your Twin Flame, and are on a Twin Flame Journey. That from the minute you met your Twin Flame….. the old 3D version of you, is no longer “YOU”.

From that moment on (since you’ve met your own Soul in another body), you’ve been invited by your Soul to step UP and INTO the 5D version of “YOU”.

❤❤ The 5D version of you, that is the always loving, always aware, always forgiving, always conscious version of you.

❤❤ The 5D version of you that doesn’t just give and receive love, but “IS LOVE”. Totally ‘Embodied’ and ‘Emitting’ LOVE.

⭐⭐⭐ By the way, In case you haven’t worked it out yet. Actually GETTING to **THIS** requires a complete change of vibration and state. ⭐⭐⭐

Getting to your desired Twin Flame Union starts with you being in Union (ie. united) with the TRUE you.

Once you’ve achieved this embodiment of your Soul 5D version…. (using my earlier analogies) …. Getting to ‘this place/state’ is like having travelled long-distance to the ‘country’ in which your Physical Twin Flame Union exists… and is waiting for you).

Once you’ve reached these states of ‘Being 5D LOVE EMBODIED’, getting to Union is easy.

Now…. to make sure you don’t accidentally don’t ‘de-rail’ this rather long and intricate process, bringing a ‘positive’ mindset to support your intentions, can really help….

Change your Thoughts and Focus #7

Stop trying to FORCE … but instead FLOW!

(👉 ‘Force’ is a 3D fear-based concept – where ‘flow’ is a 5D Divine state of ‘non-resistance’)

We need to let go of any ideas that we can somehow ‘force’ Union to happen. Or make it happen faster, or quicker.

This means we need to stop thinking about and obsessing over ideas, such as:

How you can ‘wake’ up your Twin Flame?
How you could get him or her to miss you?
How you could get them to commit to you, or choose you?
How you could get them to leave other people for you (like their current karmic or partner/spouse)?
And also, absolutely avoid any ideas of ‘treating them mean – to keep them keen’, or ‘acts of revenge or manipulation’, which sadly some ‘wounded’ people still caught up in Ego, can do unconsciously.

Are you ‘awake enough’ to realise that these things are all 3D manipulative techniques that have nothing to do with true Divine Twin Flame Love…. which is the loving state, of LOVE, that you want to be in with you Twin Flame.

Trying to drag your Twin Flame kicking and screaming to speed up Twin Flame Union won’t satisfy either you, or them.

So, stop listening to your panicking and triggered 3D mind – and aim to stay intuitively ’linked’ in your higher version instead. Don’t let any negative thoughts about your Twin Flame’s “temporary absence” or “other relationship commitments”, pull you down, or off your Journey. As I always say, ‘You’ve got this!’

(And hey, don’t forget, even an amazing friendship with your Twin Flame, as you are growing together towards full Union, can be very cool, too! )

Change your Thoughts and Focus #8

Envision the NEW YOU, that you are BECOMING, as the ‘PRIZE’, not your Twin Flame Union

(👉 Know that Physical Twin Flame Union will be the ‘icing on top’ and will feel so much better, when you have really embodied and fully loved your authentic self, first)

Know that you are ENOUGH exactly as you are.

Do this journey for yourself and the greater, and greater (more authentic, loving, open and real) version of YOU, you are literally BECOMING. Do this journey because it feels better, to be truly YOU, not simply because you are enduring it to get an external 3D end result.

Stop looking for an “Express Pass” or shortcut to get physical 3D Twin Flame Union – because there AREN’T ANY !!!! (I’m so sorry to have to break this to you. And YES, trust me I looked, and looked, and looked… *Sigh*).

Instead focus on being the best version of you. Not because anything is wrong with who you currently are, but because it feels to much better and real when you do. 😊

🔥 Grab the ‘bus’ to “Happiness”.

🔥 Stop and see ‘Surrender’.

🔥 Take lessons on how to drop your ego.

🔥 Stay a while in the place called ‘Self Love’, and you will be surprised at what you learn.

🔥 Leave behind all your 3D baggage (and limiting beliefs or rules), and instead equip yourself with much ‘lighter’ and aligned spiritual practises instead.

Change your Thoughts and Focus #9

Make Completing YOUR Twin Flame Healing and Embodying YOURSELF on you Twin Flame Journey a YOUR priority.

(👉 There is plenty of time for everything else, and everyone else… later)

Dedicate your life at this moment TO YOU, rather than to others. Their time will come.

I’m not saying ignore your desires to help others…. as a Twin Flame our lives are one of Service to Humanity.

What I am saying is:

🔥 Put on your own oxygen mask first.

🔥 Do your healing first.

🔥 Solve your own wounds and issues, so you will deeply KNOW from personal experience, how to help others heal theirs.

From your newly fully energised, healed and balanced, loving state you will truly be far more grounded and really ready for healing & helping others… alongside of your Twin Flame.

YES !!! 😊, your Twin Flame will join you in ‘Union Town’ when the time is right. (This is a high vibrational place, that you won’t actually see until you get there, although you will feel it getting closer.)

Change your Thoughts and Focus #10

Use your 5D Vibrational Heart (not your 3D mind), as your Compass for your New Life

(👉 Always follow your heart…!)

Use your heart, not your mind, to guide you on this journey.

Your mind can be great at telling you when you are off the path, or have gotten stuck. But it won’t tell you what the right path is.

♥ Only your heart can do this. ♥

So, instead of mentally setting your compass towards ‘Union Town’, set it to following your heart instead.

Do everything in your power to get back to the YOU. The ‘YOU’ you were experiencing, being & feeling, while you were in the Twin Flame Bubble Love Stage.

This is how and when you find ‘Union Town’…. or should I say ‘Union Town’ finds you. 😊

As I said earlier… Don’t focus on what your Twin Flame needs to get to Physical Twin Flame Union, or how you can you Twin Flame to get there.

Focus instead, on what YOU can do to get yourself back into Union with you.

‘BE’ the best version of you in ALWAYS and the rest will divinely fall into place.

Focus on your very next step.

Use your intuition and your heart, my dear Divine Feminines.

A journey of a thousand steps (and a huge increase in vibration and frequency) is done one step at a time.!!

You’ve got this!

Oh, and Last but not least….

Above all, Dear Divine Feminine/Twin Flame/Lightworker (yes, you are all of these)

👉 👉👉👉 Remember to Keep your Frequency and Vibration HIGH ❤❤❤

(See my Course linked below if you need help)

You’ve got this.

Much Love,

Kristina X

PS. Looking for some more direct personal Twin Flame Guidance??

I also offer a ‘Twin Flame Big Picture Guidance Session’ service, where I spend over 1 hour reviewing looking into your Twin Flame Story to-date, and provide guidance on any wounds/blockages/or mindsets that might be keeping you stuck or blocked on your Twin Flame Journey. Find out more and puchase here… .

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Do you need help with this?

🔥🔥 I’ve written an entire Twin Flame self-study course to help you re-align with the ‘Lovin‘ Feelings from your Bubble Love Stage… 🔥🔥

If you like to understand more about the important link between Twin Flames with vibration and frequency. I explain this in some detail in my ‘How to Create an Energetic Twin Flame Love Box, and why you Need One’ self-study e-course.

This course harnesses the power of vibration and frequency across a series of six fun activities (loved by my coaching clients), that can help you re-experience the feelings from your Twin Flame Bubble Love Stage over and over again (even whilst in separation from your Twin). It is full of useful guidance, that will keep your radio station tuned to ‘I love my Twin’ – the best place to receive intuitive guidance that takes you on the journey to Union. And to also prevent you from making stupid decisions that can sabotage all the progress that you’ve been making to date.

If you are interested, you can find out more about this 5 hours video course (mixture of PPT and me talking to Camera), and any of my other helpful Twin Flame Courses here…

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