Twin Flame Relationships can be blissful. They can also be annoying.
Why such a contrast? You may be asking…
Well, simply put, your Twin Flame pushes your buttons. Your ‘unhealed’ buttons, that is….
Just like in real life where we much prefer to take direct elevators straight to our floor (no detours or delays for me, please…). We don’t like to be delayed, or forced to stop and ‘visit floors’ that aren’t our focussed destination.
In the same way too in day-to-day life, we deliberately try to avoid things we would rather NOT see.
Included in the Spiritual Growth we undergo as a Twin Flames, is the awareness that these ‘things’ about ourselves, (that we are trying NOT to see)…. are still ‘Us’, and they are still ‘there’. That the sides of ourselves that we would rather not admit to, or own: still are part of us, and can’t be avoided. In the same way that all the floors of a building, that an elevator passes through (but we would rather not visit) are still ‘there’, since they are all part of the same building.
Us try to ‘pretend’ they aren’t there, doesn’t make them go away. All though we often wish they would.
And your Twin Flame is pushing on these ‘hurts’ or ‘buttons’, is actually your Soul directly talking to you: trying to say ‘Hello???!!! – Don’t forget these are here’.
Meeting our Twin Flame is the greatest gift to us
Meeting our Twin Flame opens our eyes to these hidden issues within ourselves. Because, your Twin Flame, as “you” (in another ‘body’) is going to mirror all your good and bad points:
- The good ones to reflect to you ‘how wonderful you are’ in that area.
- And your so-called ‘bad points’ to show you where false beliefs or ideas about your identity are blocking you from truly loving yourself, and therefore stopping you from being authentically your True Soul Self.
Your physical Twin Flame acts as a Messenger from your Soul: to bring your awareness to these issues, that you would rather not, or cannot see.
Your physical Twin Flame does this out of LOVE, not contrariness or nastiness. They, oh so clearly see all your beauty.
But until YOU do too….. your ability to ACCEPT their love will be diminished. [Enter Twin Flame Running/Chasing and Twin Flame Separation etc….]
Like it or not… This means it is your Twin Flame’s ‘JOB’ to push your buttons. To push you to do the inner work, as you push them to do theirs.
This happens so all the false ‘barriers’ and ego ‘bravado’ between you two, can be relaxed. Allowing both of you can love each other FULLY (without conditions or expectations) because you fully love yourself FIRST. (Yes, even those cob-webby, and shadowy, unhealed ‘bits’ that you’ve been hiding for decades).
Once you’ve done this, you can now be now 100% unashamedly YOU. Because your fear of your ‘shadowy-bits’ and being found out for having them – is all gone.
🔥🔥 When we no longer live in FEAR, we can truly live in LOVE! 🔥🔥
What a gift this is, that our Twin Flame brings us!
To no longer feel like you need to hide, or not be ‘true’ You!
After meeting your Twin Flame and doing your work together, you will truly recognise and start to fully live from your Soul.
You can now BE, and emanate true Un-Conditional Love, as the beautiful Soul you came down to Earth to be.
This is what people mean when they say ‘Twin Flame aren’t a normal relationship’, the point of Twin Flames and the bond between you plays such a much bigger role.
One Soul – Two Bodies
You and your Twin Flame are unique expressions on the same Soul, incarnated on the world at the same time. Twin Flame live pretty much ‘parallel’ or very similar lives on earth, with a sprinkling of own ‘preferences’ thrown in.
For example, I love milk chocolate, my Twin Flame loves dark chocolate.
Whilst both of us are speed-readers (a rare trait), I, as a Divine Feminine Spiritual Twin, prefer to read Romance (aka. fiction/fantasy) and non-fiction (aka. factual) books. My Divine Masculine Matrix Twin Flame, prefers to read biographies or lived experiences (aka REAL facts).
Do you see the parallels? (And how too, our different roles as the Spiritual Twin or Matrix Twin play out?)
In reality, as a Twin Flame Couple, we aren’t too different after all, and understanding and embracing our differences are an important part of the Twin Flame Journey.
No-one could ever understand you more than your Twin Flame
Next time your Twin Flame pushes your Buttons, PLEASE try NOT to OVER react. But, instead understand what they are trying to teach you: about yourself, themselves, your Twin Flame Union, or even the world as a whole.
Life is so much better when your Twin Flame hits your buttons!! (Yes, truly!!)
It allows you to heal your wounds and see yourself – your true Magnificence – as a Soul, a Twin Flame, and for some of us….. the Angelic Forms that we’ve brought embodied in here, to heal the Earth. (Rather appropriate of this time of the year, for those of you who know of, and/or celebrate the Christmas Time of the year.)
Good Bye 2025 … and Hello 2026
As 2025 (a concluding ‘9’ year) draws to a close, and 2026 (a new ‘1’ year) draws nigh, I wish you wonderful times with your loved ones (your Twin Flame included), and a fantastic, fabulous, exciting, and LOVING 2026 ahead!
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For those of your who find this time of the year a challenge, I get it, and send you ‘BIG HUGS’. ‘Family times’, of the year can be hard when you are missing special loved ones in your life. (TFs included)
If you want some help in resolving your feelings, and your thoughts about this (especially in relation to your Twin Flame, or the Twin Flame Journey), you might benefit from my most recent self-study course: ‘Twin Flames: You aren’t CRAZY – Support for your Mental Health’.
Released a couple of months ago, back in October (for World Mental Health Month), this course will be for you, if your Twin Flame is pushing your buttons and you just want off the Twin Flame Roller Coaster. It can better help you to understand what is happening to you during this time, and teach you how to embrace your your own Journey, with more love and understanding (both for you and your Twin Flame).
You can check out my new Course (and others) at this link.
( It still available at a discounted price, as my holiday gift to you. 🙏)
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🙏🙏🙏 Thank you for ALL 🙏🙏🙏
🔥🔥For reading my blog articles, supporting my YouTube Channel, enjoying my online self-study Courses, and even the odd cup of coffee that I receive as a thanks! Your support for my Twin Flame work, gives the encouragement to keep on creating, and means so much more than you will ever know! 🔥🔥
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May you all be blessed this Christmas / Holiday Season!.
Merry Christmas ! Happy Holidays ! Joyeoux Noel ! Frohe Wihnachten ! Che la luce di natale Illumini I vostri cuori ! Feliz Navidad ! Nallaig Shona ! God Jul ! Sheng dan kuai le ! Meri Kurisumasu ! Maligayang Pasko ! Mele Kalikimaka ! Subh krisamas ! Salamat Natal ! Prettige Kerst ! Geseende Kersfees ! Eid Milad Majid ! Eedookh Breekha ! Khag Molad Sameakh ! Seasons Greetings !
Hang in there! You’ve got this!
Kristina x
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PS. Wondering what the Twin Flame Roller coaster is all about? You can find out more in this blog post….
Once again, the new Twin Flame Course that I mentioned designed to support your Mental Health, can be found here…
