ARE YOU THINKING about your Twin Flame non-stop and can’t get them out of your mind? Don’t panic. I fully understand and sympathise with your endless Twin Flame Thoughts. I have them too….and once you understand what is happening, this situation won’t be so confusing.
Today, to help you with this, if you can’t stop those Twin Flame thoughts, I’m going to be talking about what Twin Flame Racing or Twin Flame Obsessive Thoughts are, and how to cope with them. 😊
First off, as a Twin Flame, you need to understand you are on a very special, very spiritual, Twin Flame Journey. The Twin Flame Connection is not a ‘normal’ girl meets guy, guy meets girl, or girl meets girl, or guy meets guy connection, like you would have experienced up until now.
THE UNIVERSE WANTS YOUR ATTENTION
Meeting your Twin Flame is something very, very different…. and VERY IMPORTANT. Non-stop racing, or even borderline ‘obsessive’ thoughts about your Twin Flame are part of that.
You need to realize, that there’s something special about your connection with your Twin Flame, and having racing Twin Flame thoughts is a neon sign from the Universe saying, “Hey You, PAY ATTENTION”.
There’s something really important going on here.
It doesn’t matter whether you’ve only spent a day or two with your Twin Flame. Or even just a couple of hours. Meeting your Twin Flame will leave you changed in ways that other relationships haven’t, and frankly would never have be able to do so.
When you have met your Twin Flame, you’ve actually come face to face with your own Soul. Because ‘You’ have incarnated twice on the planet in your current life time, in two bodies (yours and your Twins)!!!.
(And a bit hint here…. Having any type of ‘relationship’ with the other part of you (Your Twin Flame) requires totally different ‘rules’. No wonder Twin Flames are ‘not a normal relationship’, and can never be. They will, however, be one FULL of unconditional love, BUT only if you do the “work” (Twin Flame Work) and stop butting heads, between ‘you’ and ‘you’, to get there….. and are smart enough to stop labelling your Twin Flame as a ‘narcissist’, ‘avoidant’, because they are YOU!…. 🙂
Having met your Twin Flame and experienced that Blissful ‘Bubble Love Stage’, only to then quickly ‘fall out’ of that frequency… Are you worried about your inability to forget about your Twin Flame?
Don’t be, because that’s the point of racing thoughts… 1) SO YOU DON’T FORGET! And 2) So you realize there is something very different and VERY SPECIAL about the Connection that you have with your Twin Flame.
WHAT ARE TWIN FLAME OBSESSSIVE THOUGHTS OR TWIN FLAME RACING THOUGHTS?
Twin Flame Racing or Obsessive thoughts are thoughts that just keep popping up, over and over, and over again, and you can’t prevent them.
Examples are:
- Your 🔥 Twin Flame 🔥 being the first thought that you have in the morning when you wake up.
- Your 🔥 Twin Flame 🔥 being the last thought on your mind before you go to sleep at night.
- And even more weirdly and crazily, your 🔥 Twin Flame 🔥 being the first thought that you have when you wake up in the middle of the night.
These are the kinds of Twin Flame racing thoughts that you can’t change.
Somewhat annoying, huh! It can sometimes seem a bit over the top, right…? Especially if you are already married or in an existing relationship with someone else.
But the Universe now has your attention…. For good reason.
RATHER THAN GETTING ANNOYED AT YOUR TWIN FLAME THOUGHTS, OBSERVE THEM
It can be all too easy to just get annoyed at your obsessive, continual Twin Flame Thoughts, and try and dismiss them. But it is far more important to observe them.
If you find your thoughts racing about your Twin Flame during the middle of the day, then pay attention, to the important messages that they are trying to tell you.
Put yourself in the role of ‘observer of your thoughts’, watching the thoughts come up and go again…. realizing, of course, that you aren’t your thoughts you are merely watching 👀 them.
Journal about them if you can. It is important to try and work out what messages your Higher Self is trying to give to you via your on-going, non-stop thinking about your Twin Flame.
TWIN FLAME RACING THOUGHTS POINT OUT THE DIVINITY OF YOUR TWIN FLAME CONNECTION
Many of your thoughts around your Twin Flame will simply be how wonderful your Twin Flame is, and all the wonderful things that you are discovering and enjoying about them ❤.
These kinds of Twin Flames thoughts are like your magnetic tractor beam has been turned on full speed ahead towards your Twin Flame.
It’s in a sense, like you’ve been tuned in to this particular radio station called “Twin Flame”. As annoying and frustrating as it can be to sometimes think of your Twin Flame nonstop, it is the experiencing or thinking of these thoughts that helps you start to realize things about your Twin Flame Journey. Including the fact that you have met your Twin Flame and are on a Twin Flame Journey in the first place.
Your thoughts will include things like:
- How much you love your Twin Flame… even if you don’t really know them too well yet.
- That you haven’t just ‘fallen’ in love with your Twin Flame, but that you’ve loved them forever… from a time period even before you met them in this life.
- That you feel love for your Twin Flame, regardless of external situations, availability or physical appearance…even if they are nothing like the type of person you are normally attracted to.
YOUR TWIN FLAME THOUGHTS MAKE YOU REALIZE WHAT TRUE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS
You probably have thoughts that your Twin Flame is completely perfect in all of their imperfections, even if lots of other people probably wouldn’t agree.
And you probably have lots of thoughts where you can perceive the real essence of your Twin Flame inside their soul, regardless of how many layers of ego or bravado they may try to display towards you.
Your thoughts include that feeling of a deep sense of peace that everything’s all right in the world, that’s so much of our life and what you’ve previously felt important, or deliberately strived for really doesn’t matter to you anymore.
There are all these loving feeling thoughts that show you you’re alive, in love with your Twin Flame, and being loving towards them.
These thoughts were Soul-Focused.
Your Twin Flame thoughts are teaching you what ‘Unconditional Love’ truly feels like.
Your Soul is telling you these things about how your life “should be” (and probably isn’t yet..!).
- Grounded
- Gentle
- Loving
- Accepting
- Appreciative
- …and filled with Unconditional thoughts of LOVE for your Twin Flame.
YOUR EGO AND SOCIETAL PROGRAMMING CAN DISRUPT YOUR LOVING TWIN FLAME THOUGHTS AND SEND YOU DOWN A NEGATIVE PATH
Whilst the ‘Soul-Led’ thoughts about our Twin Flame are always full of ‘love’ and ‘light’. Any ego-driven, fear-based, or ‘societal-programmed’ thoughts about how this Twin Flame Connection SHOULD be different (to how we are currently experiencing them), are NOT.
When our Ego (internal beliefs) or Society expectations (external beliefs) get in the way of our Divine Connection with our Twin Flame, sadly, we also start to experience less favourable thoughts about our Twin Flame.
Thoughts like:
- ‘My Twin Flame doesn’t want me’
- ‘I thought he was my Twin Flame’
- ‘My Twin Flame is toxic’
- ‘My Twin Flame won’t love me’
- ‘My Twin Flame will never choose me’
- ‘That you could ever get together with them’, or perhaps
- ‘That maybe they were trying to maybe hurt you’.
⭐ PLEASE PAY ATTENTION HERE ⭐ Now, ALL of these thoughts ARE FALSE!!
Any negative Twin Flame Runner thoughts, like these, are not real and true. But instead, a series of incorrect ‘beliefs’ about our Twin Flame, and our Twin Flame Journey or Experience, that we need to look at and review.
(Time to pull out some ‘weeds’, People. And I’m not talking drugs here, but rather gardening – pulling out weeds [aka. ‘negative thoughts’] that take over and destroy our beautiful flower gardens [aka. Garden of Eden with our Twin Flame])
(NOTE: Also, remember if your Twin Flame has said something ‘nasty’ to you, that it might have been a ‘line that needed to be said’ because they are playing a ‘role’. A big part of their role in the Twin Flame Journey is to ‘mirror’ things to you until you get to True Twin Flame Union. So, often words that come out of their mouth, are what YOU (combined soul) has wanted them to say to push YOU to grow and heal, and may not actually reflect their TRUE feelings towards you.)
BELIEFS ARE JUST THOUGHTS AND NOT NECESSARILY TRUE, BUT RATHER…. JUST A BIASED PERCEPTION
Now, I want to talk about a very important point here.
All of these were fearful thoughts that you might have had about your Twin Flame, not loving you, or choosing you, etc, are generally NOT true, so please don’t fall into the mistake of believing them.
When you have these fearful thoughts about your Twin Flame, you are really only “guessing” how our Twin Flame feels.
We don’t REALLY know, because we haven’t asked them.
As my Grandmother used to say…. ‘Don’t borrow trouble’.
We might assume that just because our Twin Flame is in another relationship that they’ll never come back to us, but who knows?
People give up on relationships, and relationships changed all the time, so don’t get stuck in negative thinking.
Anything could change at a moment’s notice.
YOUR FEARFUL TWIN FLAME THOUGHTS KEEP POPPING UP SO YOU CAN SEE THEM, RECOGNISE THEM, AND PERMANENTLY DELETE THEM
You may be wondering why you have these fearful thoughts regarding your Twin Flame love?
The great loving ones are beautiful, but the fearful ones are not so much fun.
Well, there are two purposes or reasons, as to why we have these fearful thoughts regarding our Twin Flame.
- The first one is to keep reminding us of our Twin Flame and our Twin Flame work.
This happens because life is full of lots of 3D things, and our Soul does not want us to get distracted or to go wandering off in completely different directions. We need to focus on and do our Twin Flame Work. Once on this Twin Flame Journey, you can’t get off, so the only way ‘through’ is to keep moving forward.
- They’re actually helping us to remove any thoughts or beliefs that are incompatible with our Twin Flame relationship, which should be the energy and feeling of absolute Divine and Unconditional Love.
The reason that we think these negative thoughts is to wake us up out of ‘autopilot mode’, and show to us how much “society” (ie. parents, family, religions, work, friends, TV shows, news, social media, gaming) and how we’ve been brought up, has informed (usually negatively) our ‘thinking patterns’ and actions. Often moving us far away from our natural loving Soul Self.
As an example, the common phrase or saying, “Treat them mean, keep them keen”, or “keep them wanting more” is a manipulative, egotistical thought (which has no basis in true love), and we want to find and locate these types of ‘faulty’ thought processes (our own’s and society’s) and throw them out.
They have no place in relation to our Twin Flame and Unconditional Love.
In the Twin Flame connection, our Soul is instructing our brain to literally recycle these thoughts through our brain over and over again, (a bit like being stuck in a ‘hamster’ wheel), so that we can notice all those thoughts that feel fearful, and not loving, and get rid of them.
So, if you were really getting worried over your cycling thoughts, or non-stop thoughts about your Twin Flame, don’t be.
Ongoing thoughts of your Twin Flame (both good and ‘bad’) is a normal part of the Twin Flame journey, so don’t panic about it. Don’t worry about it, but you do need to do the work.
USE JOURNALLING TO CAPTURE AND IDENTIFY YOUR TWIN FLAME THOUGHTS
Ever heard about the benefit of writing a “to-do” list so that your mind can stop the never-ending swirling of trying to remember all the things that you need to do?
Well, the same concept here.
When you notice and write down all your Twin Flame thoughts, especially the negative ones, you can analyse your thinking and realize that these thoughts aren’t necessarily true, and probably highly unlikely. This allows you to reduce your stress around your Twin Flame and be able to ‘respond’ with care and consideration, rather than ‘reacting’ out of fear or worry.
Facing these thoughts or beliefs consciously, via writing them down, will increase your knowledge and understanding of your Twin Flame Journey and what is happening to you. Which will, in turn, reduce your fear of the unknown, and over-time lessen the number of fearful thoughts.
Failure to do this (and I mean getting rid of those fearful thoughts), means that your actions towards your Twin Flame would be more likely to be governed by fear (rather than Love). And, that you’re much more likely to blow up your 3D connection or relationship, in whatever stage it at, simply because of your negative thoughts. One example would be, that if you were afraid your Twin Flame might reject you, that you might push them away first (ie. reject them before they might ‘reject you’). But, if your Twin wasn’t going to reject you, then your actions would have been made without any real reason to… (other than your fearful thoughts (3D)), and would cause great pain to both you and your Twin Flame.
ACTIVELY PROCESS YOUR TWIN FLAME THOUGHTS
Now that you’ve identified those non-happy and fearful thoughts regarding your Twin Flame or Twin Flame journey, what do you do with them?
(First off, don’t try stuffing them down and ignoring them… as that is probably what you’ve been doing for most of your life with emotional things haven’t wanted to face.)
Instead, please acknowledge them. Mentally thank them for coming up for you because it’s just your body trying to keep you safe. Thank them for bringing you the messages, and tell these fearful thoughts, that they can now go.
It’s kind of a ‘thank you for turning up, but I’m a not interested’ kind of message, if this makes sense. Something a bit like what you would say to a telemarketer if they rang you and was trying to sell you something that you didn’t want. Just politely decline.
Now, return your Twin Flame thoughts back to those of Unconditional Love for your Twin Flame. 🧡🧡🧡
It might take a bit of effort, but you can definitely do this. (Even if you are worried about losing your Twin Flame, or they are the Twin Flame Runner.)
I always recommend, being in a state of gratitude, LOVE and appreciation when dealing with or thinking about your Twin Flame. It is such a much better place to be.
If you are still feeling a little worried about all these Twin Flame thoughts popping up again and again, don’t be. You can’t stop thinking of your Twin Flames, even if you try. But you now have methods for dealing with them.
Know too, that if you do your Twin Flame work and are moving down your Soul’s path and healing any 3D beliefs or behaviours that aren’t in alignment with the Unconditional Love for your Twin Flame. That any Twin Flame obsessive thoughts or negative thoughts towards your Twin Flame Runner, will lesson over time. Woo Hoo!.
So, also don’t get consumed by all these fearful little thoughts, and instead simply enjoy the loving beautiful thoughts of your Twin Flame, which will also pop up.
DELIBERATELY REPLACE ANY NEGATIVE TWIN FLAME THOUGHTS WITH POSITIVE, LOVING ONES
If your worrying Twin Flame thoughts are really obsessive and that’s hard for you to deal with?
One of the things that you can do is ACTIVELY take steps to change those negative thoughts with positive ones. With positive affirmations and positive ideas about your Twin Flame. Like, ‘I love my Twin Flame’.
Now, if you’re having trouble with keeping your Twin Flame thoughts positive and high-vibrational… (especially, if you are the ‘spiritual twin’ or the Divine Feminine Twin Flame, who carries the ‘knowledge/awareness’ of the existence of this magical, other-worldly, Twin Flame Connection)
THIS is the No. #1 reason WHY, I created my most recent Twin Flame course, designed for ‘True Twin Flames’, which is called “How to create an Energetic TWIN FLAME LOVE BOX … and WHY you need one”.
Designed a bit like a Twin Flame coaching session, this video course, comes with heaps of helpful diagrams and visual explanations, as well as me occasionally directly talking to camera, and sharing some personal Twin Flame experiences with you.
In this course (all 5 hours of it), I explain the importance of frequency and vibration for Twin Flames, and I go into detail and share with you some gems from my Twin Flame Coaching toolkit. Six different, light, fun filled ‘Twin Flame’ related activities that you can use to pull you out of negative or depressive Twin Flame cycling thoughts, and move back into beautiful blissful thoughts of love and appreciation for your Twin Flame.
These activities help you to ‘re-embody’ the ‘blissful Bubble Love’ high-vibrational feelings that you had when your first met your Twin Flame. (Which is where you ‘energetically’ really need vibrating at, in order to transverse this Twin Flame journey, with a lot less pain, and a lot less anguish, than you may have been experiencing to-date.)
Some students I’ve coached, tend to just stick with one or two of these activities on a regular basis, whilst others enjoy using all six.
While the initial (once off) preparation for these activities takes a bit of time, once the setup is complete, each activity can be done in just a few minutes whenever you wish to use them. This makes them a quick way of bringing you out of any negative obsessive thinking or lower moods, that affect your love for your Twin Flame…. which, if unaddressed, can unfortunately drag out the time it takes to reach Physical Twin Flame Union, that no-one wants.
To find out more, click on the Course name at my Twin Flame Teachable School. Watch the short ‘promo’ video that will tell you a little more. 😊 (Note: Course is delivered in ENGLISH only, and comes with ENGLISH subtitles for additional clarity, as I do have a slight ‘Australian’ accent. Apologies to my global audience but I don’t speak any other languages…, other than some ‘light’ language, of course)
DON’T JUST RECEIVE THE TWIN FLAME LOVING THOUGHTS – BUT EMBODY THEM
As, I’ve said throughout this blog post, the Universe give us all these never-ending Twin Flame thoughts, because it wants our ATTENTION.
It wants us to realize there is something special about our Twin Flame and the spiritual Twin Flame Love connection that we’ve got with them.
It wants us to realize what TRUE LOVE (Unconditional Love) looks like, which is definitely NOT what is portrayed on TV, NOR in ANY of the ‘love’ relationships that you’ve experienced prior to finding your Twin Flame.
Twin Flame LOVE is VERY different and you need to approach this differently – via your heart, soul, and emotions… not the mind or 3D programming.
In your past history (using 3D programming), you would have most likely entered into an intimate, physical relationship for the purposes of ‘GETTING LOVE’. But, with the Twin Flame it is different, reversed, in fact.
With your Twin Flame, you need to actually ‘BE LOVE’. To really understand and ‘embody it’ from both a 5D and 3D perspective first. BEFORE you can have the 3D physical love relationship with your Twin Flame turn up for you… (and STAY) 🧡🧡.
Discovering how to ‘Embodying LOVE’ can be challenging, especially when we’ve never been taught to love ourselves properly. We were all (falsely) warned that ‘self-love’ was selfish, but it isn’t.
And that is why your Twin Flame (‘YOU’ in another body is here)… to help you learn to LOVE YOURSELF. So, you can then teach others how to do it too….
And, of course the 5d spiritual love is always there, between Twin Flames, because you are each other.
Your beautiful, blissful 5D love between Twin Flames is ALWAYS there and present… if you learn how to tap into it.
❤️🔥 For the Divine Feminine Twin Flame, the 5D love is present to encourage the DF to keep going on the Twin Flame Journey, and to rewrite all their beliefs about love. It helps her/him ‘weed out’ all those negative thoughts so they can EMBODY true love.
❤️🔥 For the Divine Masculine, the 5D love always there in the background. And the ever-increasing ‘EMBODIED’ Unconditional Love emanating from his/her Divine Feminine, is the beacon that gives them the strength to break free of 3D beliefs too… ultimately, calling them ‘home’ to their Twin Flame.
REMEMBER TO APPLY POSITIVE LOVING THOUGHTS TO YOURSELF, AS WELL
After you’ve finished reading this post, and you continue on your Twin Flame Journey and completing your Twin Flame Journey ‘work’, don’t forget the saying “Treat others, as you wish to be treated”. And realize this means YOU too.
As, you re-evaluate all your thoughts, fears and worries on this Twin Flame Journey, clearing out anything that stands between you and LOVE (both 3D and 5D) remember to include any (false) negative long held thought about yourself in the inquiries. The love that you give to yourself, is also love to your twin.
USE THE QUALITY OF YOUR TWIN FLAME THOUGHTS TO CELEBRATE YOUR TWIN FLAME JOURNEY PROGRESS
Use Twin Flame racing thoughts to your advantage. Use it as a ‘goal post’ to see how you are progressing with your Twin Flame work, and how close you are getting to Twin Flame physical union.
When your Twin Flame thoughts are only ‘positive’ and can stay that way, it is a really good sign that you have reached Twin Flame Inner Union, (or what I call Twin Flame Illumination), and are only one Twin Flame Stage away from Physical Twin Flame Union.
WRAP UP: MY FINAL THOUGHTS (pun intended)
We really need to be focusing on Twin Frame thoughts that are positive on this journey, and they’re the ones that we want to keep.
So don’t buy into fearful thoughts.
Focus all your energy on your Twin Flame loving thoughts, and with the loving ones you might also want to use the Twin Flame mirror, and turn it around and see how those loving thoughts apply to yourself.
Always know that what you love about your Twin Flame (YOU in another body),
is also in YOU… waiting to be loved by yourself.
Have faith and trust in your Twin Flame, your journey. And don’t forget to love both yourself and your Twin Flame.
You can do this, much love.
Kristina. x
PS. Oh, if you love video. Here is a shorter version of this blog post on You Tube. Enjoy!
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